Support for Flowerlove22

[Snowie]

@Sunnyside226 you are fine to write what you want. In fact I think its brave. Sometimes saying things out loud or writing them down can be really difficult.

I'm sorry that both your parents have gone. It must be really hard for you. It makes it even more difficult on anniversaries, birthdays, holidays. People say it gets easier with time but I really don't believe that. It could be the first time or the tenth time, it is still hard.

I do have a dog. She is a cavoodle. She is such a good companion and I love her so much. We have had her for about 7 years now and got her when she was a puppy. We picked her because they are good for people with lots of allergies and my daughter has got lots, so perfect for her.

I don't have many hobbies. I did teach Dance for about 20 years, but gave that up awhile ago. I am very much a loner and would rather just get caught up in a good book than met up with people or go out. I'm lucky that I have my family around me. I have a hubby and two kids.

What do you like doing?

Do you have any pets?

[Sunnyside226]

Hey @Snowie  

I have a question  I hope you may  answer how do you put in a complaint ?  And who does it go to? 

Yes having no parents hurts a lot   it sucks    I just know Friday will not be a good day      she was my world 

I like gaming  driving    once on a blue moon I will go on a bike  

No I don't have pets   I really am looking for a puppy but I'm not ready for that yet 

[Snowie]

HI @Sunnyside226 

If you scroll down to the bottom of the page (where it turns black) there is a Feedback and Complaints button that you can click. That will take you to a page where you can submit a complaint.  

From my understanding it goes to the people that run what section of Sane you want to submit a complaint to (if that is what you want).

Have you got something organised for Friday at all? I know we are all different, some people want to stay really busy and some just want to be on their own. Maybe can you do something that you and your mum liked doing.

[Sunnyside226]

Ok thanks. I just don't want that person to look at it,    I will try to work it out 

It was about a person that works here  

Mum liked cooking and sewing  I don't but I could cook cookies or something and go get her flowers and sit with her for an hour or two @Snowie   

[Snowie]

It's ok to put a complaint in @Sunnyside226 

Think of it more as constructive criticism. Sometimes people don't realise they have done something.

Just a suggestion for you on Friday. You do whatever you feel is right for you. 

Please remember that the forums will be here to, if you need some company or someone to talk to.

[Sunnyside226]

@Snowie   it's because how I get told off for everything I do   

I'm always in the wrong.  I am being friendly to everyone.   But I am the only one who heads get taken off for being friendly 

I'm done  with the world I'm  done trying to please everyone.  I'm the odd one out  all the time       

If that person Hates me that's fine but not being friendly to me isn't fair just because they work here   

Sorry  I'm sure this will get taken down  it's not fair   I'll leave sane,  I won't come back     @Snowie  sorry if this upset you 

Thanks for talking take care of yourself 

[Snowie]

I don't think you are the odd one out @Sunnyside226 

It's been lovely talking to you and getting to know you better.

For me the friendships I have made on here have benefited me a lot.

Please know that I am only a tag away.

[Sunnyside226]

@Snowie  this is my last one for a while 

What upsets me is   I do talk to members all the. About anything  art pets cars whatever.    From time to time I will tag a peer worker who on and say hey how are you what you been up to its been a while.  Yes I have missed some because they have finished their shift which I upset me because I had missed 3 workers  I don't tag them everyday I don't tag them every week. 

Unless we have a conversation that's important or etc  

When Jynx had said I can tag them the peer workers many times I said no because I don't like doing that  because it's doesn't feel ok to me 

Every member on tags a peer worker that's on. But nobody else seem to get a message saying it's only peer to peer 

I understand that but everyone else tags the peers workers 

So why am I different?   What have I ever done?   I'm only been friendly and being nice by saying hey to them  

@Snowie  sorry for the rumbling  on I'm really sorry 😔 

[Snowie]

It's ok to feel the way you do @Sunnyside226 

Perhaps putting in some feedback/complaint might help both you and them.

No need to be sorry. I am more than happy to listen to you.

Sometimes just getting it all out can help too.

[Ru-bee]

Hey @Sunnyside226 I'm really sorry to hear that you have felt singled out in any way. I can assure you that any posts sent from the team are always sent in a spirit of kindness, though I know that it can be hard when communicating online to read the intended tone.

If you're needing to make a complaint, that's okay. We encourage feedback- you can do that here.