Support for Flowerlove22

[Snowie]

I'm sorry you feel that way @Sunnyside226 

I should be around later for a chat. If not will get back to you as soon as I can.

[Sunnyside226]

Ok @Snowie     talk soon  

[Snowie]

Hi @Sunnyside226 

Hoping today has been a good day for you

[Sunnyside226]

Hi @Snowie  today been ok. I'm still feeling hurt    

I'm stressing for next Friday but other than that I'm ok I guess 

How are you? 

[Snowie]

I'm ok thanks @Sunnyside226 

Been sanding some of my balcony and painting. Long overdue.

I'm sorry if I forgot (happens a lot when I'm having ECT) but what's next Friday?

[Sunnyside226]

@Snowie painting sounds nice,    you painting anything in particular? 

Next Friday is my mum's anniversary 

There's going to be lots of feelings I may not be okay on Friday.  

Any plans for tomorrow? 

[Snowie]

Been repainting our Balcony handrail. Hasn't been done for awhile and gets lots of sun so was overdue. Was peeling and cracking in places.

No plans yet for tomorrow.

Anniversaries can be really hard @Sunnyside226. They do bring up lots of different feelings all at the same time.

Will you be spending it alone or with others?

Please remember that we will be here too if you need some extra support.

[Sunnyside226]

@Snowie  I'll on alone on Friday   I don't think I could face having people around it's not that I don't it's just I grief different   I like to have all my feelings and emotions thoughts out alone so I don't upset people around me 

I'll be giving my mom new flowers and sit with her    she's my world 😫💙   

[Snowie]

I can understand that @Sunnyside226 I'm not that good around others either.

Sometimes it's easier to be alone, you don't have to worry about others or trying to keep it together.

I lost my dad 9 years ago now. It's hard losing a parent, especially when we are very close to them.

Do what is right for you. That might be different to others and that's ok. We all grieve in our own way.

[Sunnyside226]

Your so right @Snowie that everyone handles it differently 

I'm sorry about your dad,   

This is the second Christmas without both my parents    I wish they were here so I could be close to them and be happier         I wish I had hugged my parents longer sorry if this triggers you I'm happy to take it down or the moderate can 

Do you have any pets ? Or hobbies if comfy answering