Destiny

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme,

yes rhinos do happen when we don’t expect. It just feels so tough waiting some times. 

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme ,

I guess you are right. I am just looking forward to it so much. But then wonder if I’m worthy because she probably doesn’t really care. She is probably with brunch friend 

[rav3n]

hey @Rockdog i like this "destiny" thread you've created - really thought-provoking, i spend a lot of times questioning things like fate too.

i saw you recent message about not feeling worthy. it's almost an automatic thought process when we feel like someone doesn't value of us just because they're choosing to hang out with someone else or because they haven't responded the way we want. people's responses/actions are often a reflection of their capacity, not yours! i'm sure she does care but she may not be able to show you in a way that you'd prefer - this doesn't reflect your worthiness. other people can never decide your value, that's something you have sole control over 💗

[Rockdog]

Hi @rav3n,

thank you, that is so true and something I am working on.

Sometimes I don’t feel worthy but you are right it isn’t something someone else can give you. I know I need to feel it in myself but sometime I just get a bit stuck. And yes the whole fate thing is really hard to work out. So many signs and then nothing, it is hard work. How weird is fate? 

[rav3n]

@Rockdog i reckon that's totally normal to feel stuck! it's hard to feel good about ourselves 24/7 when life's so unpredictable, so it makes sense if some days its harder to see our worth than others. i guess it takes some practice with reminding ourselves that we are just as worthy and valuable humans in our bad days as we are in our good ones.

fate is weird! i like this quote "rejection is just redirection" - i like to believe that all the things that don't go my way is just preparing me for something better, even if it is somewhere far in the future. i guess it's all about hope and having faith in your self at the end of the day?

[Rockdog]

Hey @rav3n ,

yeah ah I don’t like to think of it as rejection, just a piece of the puzzle that hasn’t fit yet. 

[Rockdog]

Hey @tyme ,

how are are you going tonight? Do you have time to chat? 

[rav3n]

@Rockdog ooo i like that puzzle metaphor!

[Rockdog]

Haaa @rav3n ,

yeah? It feels like it at times 

[rav3n]

yeah it does @Rockdog, its like this gigantic incomplete puzzle and each time i add a piece, i slowly feel like i start to understand myself, who i am and who i want to be. but there are definitely moments where i can't find a piece of that puzzle or i grab a piece too early so there's no where to attach it.

how's today been for you? 😊