Lived Experience Forum

[Oaktree]

My dear @Sophia1 

I know that I hurt you! I don’t deny that but I didn’t mean to. Your reaction to the whole thing made me jump backwards off the forums. I have dabbled from time to time 

since then and for a long time @HenryX was my security blanket. I always wanted to come back in full communion with you Sophia. It hurt me to think that I hurt you. I have a caring heart and your pain was shared by me. I want very much for us to keep playing on Introduction 

Love you very much. I hope that you will keep forgiving me

Meggle

[tyme]

Hey @Sophia1 ,

Thank you for being open and putting this out on the table. Hopefully this will help clarify things.

We want all members to feel heard and supported on the forums. 

If there's anything lingering issue, please feel free to email us on team@saneforums.org

As with any communication, especially text, there is chance for miscommunication. As much as we want to avoid miscommunication, it is inevitable.

Hence it is good to be transparent so as to be able to 'move on'. Members are welcome to continue communicating with each other, or if they feel safer not to, that's also fine. 

The Forums team at SANE want to support you all @Sophia1 @Oaktree @tonys 

Kindest, tyme

[tonys]

Thanks   @Sophia1    and    @Oaktree    Hey ladies   ...   I have seen a love and frienship tween you 

two that I feel lucky too have witnessed.   

Were a unit  I  as you know I never change..    My frienship is unwavering.

and remember   old tonys fingers are falling of over here.   I only  ride an old fat pinto...

tonys  

[Sophia1]

Oh my dearest @Oaktree 

I am  so sorry that you too were deeply affected.

I have not held a grudge at all.

I have trod on eggshells though.

I think that we are both sensitive and are aware of this.

We both really do care about each other.

Can we make a special pact with @tonys as our beautiful guardian to watch over us as we watch over each other?

Can we agree to not worry that we have upset each other?

Can we agree that neither of us would ever want to do that?

Can we come up with a code

like wooden spoon!!

or how would you like to handle this

sometimes I jump in with a huge splash trying to save everyone creating a tidal wave.

Forgive me for upsetting you because you felt that you  had upset me.

Sounds like we are back in whatever colour Rock town

what do you think?💜

[tonys]

Hi  @tyme    I'm   all good..    I don't actually know what happened.. . . .   

Sometimes  ignorance is bliss..      But I hope my dear friends @Sophia1   @Oaktree   are ok

Peace full evening to you   thyme..    tonys

[Oaktree]

It’s ok @tyme 

We are all great friends

just clearing old air

thanks 

Meggle

[Sophia1]

Thank you @tyme 

Much appreciated.

We are all human and there is nothing wrong in asking for help I believe.

I think that it shows strength

I think that you are a very beautiful, warm, strong, funny lady @Oaktree and you are still finding your way back.

The forums have grown so much as well.

They are very overwhelming for me at times.

Thank you @tonys 

You have been promoted to guardian

[Oaktree]

Yes thanks @Sophia1 

Back to Grey Rock!

Race you there!

I left the thanking ceremony there for you.

@tonys thought it was hilarious 

Meggle

[tonys]

Thats beautiful  @Sophia1    @Oaktree      Tonys is a bit slow,   he doesnt actually know what happened

but tomorrow night we share a bottle at the . . . .   I dunno    where ever you tag me from   tonys

[Sophia1]

@Oaktree @tonys 

just before we get back there

what code do you want?

wooden spoon? or something else

none of us want to do this again do we 💜