ohhhh thank you @Former-Member, @Owlunar, @Jacques, @outlander, @Determined, @Former-Member 
Mum is back home today , the physcio lady came to visit her this afternoon
and Mum rang to say she was going to bed early --
my second mum @Owlunar, like you said is true , my mum will do these things in her time -- no one else`s time -- which is hard sometimes
my mr shaz fixed my mower @Former-Member
now he wants to buy a 21 inch push mower intead of a 18 inch mower , ammmm we have mowers sitting around
You better watch out @Shaz51, mowers are inclined to breed 😀. Mr Shaz doesn't loving refer to them as his collection does he???? 😀.
Eeeeekkkk!!!!
Now if I stop there you need to know so I will tell it
My brother's job was to mow the lawn which in my opinion was better than washing the dishes - we were teenagers actually - and Dad's mower was one of those that needed pushing -
And my brother wanted one that had a motor and Dad got one that had the bla des rotating from a motor - and my brother still moaned about it and I was still washing the dishes
So Dad finally got a motor mower and my brother was still unhappy and I was still washing the dishes and about then we both got married and I was still washing dishes and he was still mowing lawns - he wanted a mower he could sit on and eventually I got a dish-washer
Okay - more interestingly - about your Mum - I do understand her Shaz - I have no intention of taking on something unless I know myself I really need it and I guess I will worry people too - some of us really hang onto our independence and aging is an event we do not want to be part of while we know it is inevitable or the alternative is inevitable and time keeps passing
But in care my mother was walking independently and well until they gave her a walker and I guess they gave it to her because of their insurance but the next day after they gave it to her she was dependent on it and I understand your mum very well
But I also see it's tough for you - and I am thinking of you
Dec
