@Sunnyside226 I understand completely what you are saying. There was a former member on the forums who had the same experience as you, I never understood what they meant because my interactions had always been positive. Until Sane changed the format and other things on the forum. 
I have an email from one of the peer guides stating that "Sane welcomes differing opinions" yet when that was challenged it was not true.

I love the people I regularly chat with, and even those who only pop in to say hi every now and then. Part of me want to give the finger and say sayonara but I know I would miss the genuine Sane friends.

For now I am still here, next month, who knows.
I hope you find what you need and that you find some kindness and care from the members who do want to hang out with you xo