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[Shaz51]

He brought something in the city today after seeing the kidney specialist 

Got home and it does not work on the computer which has sent Mr shaz going downhill fast so he threw things, not talking,  does not want any dinner etc  @Jynx 

[Jynx]

Ahh gotcha @Shaz51, aww poor guy. I know I certainly can have a 'short-fuse' with my ADHD, and maybe it is all just a compounding of various stressors resulting in a bit of a meltdown. 

How are you doing, you ok? Can be a bit rattling to be in a room with an angry person throwing things, even if we know they'd never hurt us.  

[Shaz51]

Yes I am OK @Jynx , everything will be OK 

Just needs to ride it out tonight 

Mr shaz has just made us a cuppa coffee ☕️ 

I can call it a ASD / ADHD meltdown  now 

Just means a quiet night , he has not gone to bed yet 

[Jynx]

Yeah that's it hey @Shaz51 just gotta wait for the storm to pass. I'll grab a cuppa with ya too! I reckon everything will feel lighter tomorrow 😉

[Oaktree]

@Shaz51 

Feeling for r you my friend. Hope things return to normal soon for you

[Shaz51]

Lovely 😊 sitting here with you having a cuppa @Jynx , @Meowmy 

 

[Shaz51]

Thank you 😊 @Oaktree 

YEs just going to ride it out like @Jynx said 

And all be good tomorrow for some more ups and downs 😊

[Shaz51]

Well there goes my medical appointments 

As Mr shaz does not want to travel to the city again for a long time 

@Jynx , @Oaktree. @Meowmy , @tyme , 

[Jynx]

Oh no @Shaz51... Hmmm.... Considering his current mental state, I wonder if it might help to gently let him know that it's never a good idea to make big or final decisions whilst dysregulated, and that maybe you could revisit the conversation tomorrow?

[Shaz51]

Good idea @Jynx 😊

I am thinking Mr shaz will be  looking forward to a day of nothing tomorrow