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15 Aug 2024 09:31 PM
15 Aug 2024 09:31 PM
hi @tyme ,
thank you yes I am but I don’t know how.
Honestly it is still about her and I am struggling to make it about me because I love and miss her. I had no idea I would get these feelings it is so weird. I wasn’t expecting this to happen and I don’t know how it did. But it did and now I am lost without her. I wanted to ask whether she actuall did have any feelings ,maybe not. I just hope so but I don’t know if I can do it. It all might be done, I don’t think I am a good example for the talk because I just miss her. It isn’t fair to meet someone so special and gave it all end this way.
15 Aug 2024 09:37 PM
15 Aug 2024 09:37 PM
Hi @tyme ,
thank you so much for everything.
it is her and I can’t do it for me. I love her and can’t do it. It is too painful. She doesn’t care and I do t think I do either
15 Aug 2024 09:40 PM
15 Aug 2024 09:40 PM
Hey @Rockdog ,
I'm sorry you feel this way at the moment. You have so much in you. There are so many great things ahead. I hope you find the space to give yourself the chance.
Hope is what keeps us all going. Are you going to throw in the towel now?
15 Aug 2024 09:44 PM
15 Aug 2024 09:44 PM
Thank you @tyme ,
thank you for being there for me. I’m sorry but I don’t think I’m a very good case study. I love her and it ruined me
15 Aug 2024 09:51 PM
15 Aug 2024 09:51 PM
Hi @tyme ,
no I don’t want to throw in the towel . It is just how I am feeling at the moment. Of course I want my dreams to work out, I’m just not feeling it right now and it is very hard. I gave her my number, I am thinking that if oshe had feelings she would have called. She didn’t so doesn’t care.
15 Aug 2024 09:52 PM
15 Aug 2024 09:52 PM
Will looking after yourself and practicing self-compassion and self-care ruin you? @Rockdog
Don't worry about any case studies or events now. This is about you. We need to make sure you get back on track and press forward.
You are the one that matters in this.
15 Aug 2024 09:53 PM
15 Aug 2024 09:53 PM
I hate to leave you now, but perhaps we can catch up tomorrow? @Rockdog
15 Aug 2024 10:02 PM
15 Aug 2024 10:02 PM
Hi @tyme ,
yes that would be nice. Take care, I will always work towards my dream. I am never giving up no matter how low I get. We can do this. Thanks for your support. Take care my best friend .
15 Aug 2024 10:15 PM
15 Aug 2024 10:15 PM
Hi @tyme,
I guess my problem is that if she doesn’t care I don’t either
15 Aug 2024 10:28 PM
15 Aug 2024 10:28 PM
Hi @tyme,
thank you for talking to me I always appreciate your support. I’m sorry the pain. Is too much
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