Destiny

[tyme]

Hey @Rockdog ,

That's the way. Things that are meant to be are meant to be. You can't even fight them when they hit you.

Life on my side is pretty challenging but pretty amazing at the same time. I've had some deep challenges in the past 2 weeks or so, and I'm quite pleased at how they turned out. It's tired me, but my spirit is fighting strong... that's all I can say.

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme ,

Glad you got through your challenges and have achieved some good results.Hopefully  you get a bit of time to chill on the weekend. Here to talk if you would like, because I get in my own head and would like to support you after everything you do for me. 

[tyme]

Hey @Rockdog ,

How thoughtful of you. Nah, it's okay. I had my growth coach to speak to and she's amazing. I really surprised myself at how I was able to advocate for myself.

It makes me think, what would have happened if 10-20 years ago I had the brain I have now? Only something to think about.

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme ,

It is so strange because I never meant to get the feelings I got, there must be reason  for it. I don’t even know where she is at though, I think she might have left. I do think it might have been real for both of us. Like you say, if it is meant to be. I have already had the encounter not long ago. She isn’t mad at me. Sorry I do have a few sad days, but i think life is mean5 to work out for all of us.

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme ,

you can just reflect on how much you have grown in that time.  Life is about learning, and being proud of growth. We only have now. I get stuck in the past. She told me not to look back but now I just think back to a couple of years ago.  I’m glad you have a coach to help, but also want you to know that when you connect with others the way you do, you create a bond and a care for your wellbeing as well. 

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme.

im not sure if u have learned much. All I know is I want her in my life 😢

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme ,

I don’t think it is going to happen for me. I just think life is meant to be torture

[tyme]

Are you going to put on the glasses that makes you feel like life will be torture? What I've learnt is that 10% is about what happens or doesn't happen for us, and the rest is how we respond to it @Rockdog 

As I mentioned, I've had some really horrible experiences lately, but I believe that it is because of how I look at it that it actually doesn't affect me like it would other people.

Life is NOT meant to be a torture. 

You are in the driver's seat.

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme ,

Thank you. That is so true. Sometimes I have a calm positive feeling about things working out and it is nice. Then I just think of the pain and it hurts so much.

it is how you respond to things and I don’t want to throw away my chances of the future I want. It  Things won’t happen if I don’t love myself. The torture isn’t part of that 😊

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme .

I just really hope she has the same feelings and things work out.