Discussion with Arra

[ArraDreaming]

@Oaktree replying here cause it’s probably better, I am ok today, better than yesterday felt like I really copped it from all angles yesterday but better today had some family time

[Oaktree]

@ArraDreaming 

There was definitely something in the wind yesterday and you really did cop it in the neck. Glad to hear that you a feeling better today.

[ArraDreaming]

I haven’t heard from my sister @Oaktree

[Oaktree]

@ArraDreaming 

You may not hear from her for a while

[ArraDreaming]

When she needs something @tyme

[ArraDreaming]

I mean @Oaktree

[Oaktree]

@ArraDreaming 

Probably, try and do whatever is right for you if she does come looking for something. You don’t want to regret things later. Like if you give her money. Give it to her and don’t expect it back, that way you are not hurt if she doesn’t pay you back. My family are like that. They lend money and never pay it back. I have decided that I don’t give them money anymore.

[ArraDreaming]

We have given her money we couldn’t afford to give away because she’s a 20 year old single mother on her own without a job, @Oaktree, you know because we care… never got it back, we give her baby toys and clothes, frozen meals…
I don’t do these things for a thank you but every now and then it would be nice,

[Oaktree]

@ArraDreaming 

Now I see why you were so upset.

That’s a bit of a kick in the teeth after you have tried so hard to help her out

[ArraDreaming]

I have raised her, I would rock her to sleep when I was a little kid, @Oaktree
Only for to turn into an adult who demands things from me, and makes comments about things that she knows really hurt