Discussion with Arra

[ArraDreaming]

That’s good what’s that for @Oaktree

[Oaktree]

@ArraDreaming 

Sane’s recovery club zooms

[ArraDreaming]

Oh cool I didn’t know about those @Oaktree

[Oaktree]

@ArraDreaming 

You have to join the recovery club to do the zooms. Its a program that runs for 6 months 

[ArraDreaming]

Cool, I hate zoom anyway so all good @Oaktree

[ArraDreaming]

Hey @Oaktree

[Oaktree]

Hey @ArraDreaming 

sorry I missed your tag the other day. I haven’t been on the forums as much this past little while. I still post every day but I am not scrolling as much. I have just been busy with other things.

Anyway I am ready to explain myself to you if you are up to it today?

[ArraDreaming]

Hey @Oaktree sorry I was having sometime away from here but happy to talk whenever

[Oaktree]

Hi @ArraDreaming 

As you know we have struggled to get along in the past. When you arrived on the forums I tried hard to be supportive of you but you were very angry. I then decided to not interact with you at all. I did that until you said you deserved a second chance and I agreed you did. Then you got funny with me again and I didn’t know what to do with you. I want to get along but I struggle with trust. Trust that you won’t get angry or aggressive with me again. With me people have to earn trust. I have difficulty just giving trust. I also struggle with anger and aggression due to having had abusive parents. Anger and aggression really trigger me. However having said all of that I really want to learn to get along with you. I guess if we have a future problem we can bring it here to this thread to try and work it out?

[ArraDreaming]

Sure @Oaktree