21-12-2024 03:13 AM
21-12-2024 03:13 AM
I’m seeking some advice on what happens when you apply for a family violence intervention order — specifically, what behaviour counts as threatening enough and likely enough to reoccur for an order to be made, and what happens if the person the order’s made against breaches it?
Six weeks after our breakup my former partner is continually contacting me, despite our no-contact agreement, and making me feel distressed and horrible. I don’t fear for my physical safety and we don’t have children together. I want something stronger than my words to try and keep him away, but I fear my case right now isn’t strong enough for an intervention order to succeed — and even if it did, it’d have terms his current behaviour would breach, and I fear that would set off a cascade of events that would turn him even more unpredictable and unstable. I don’t want him to harass me, but his life blowing up would make things worse.
Has anyone had a similar experience that could help me understands what behaviour stands up an order, and what happens if one’s breached? Appreciate any insights.
21-12-2024 10:13 AM
21-12-2024 10:13 AM
Hey @sopa ,
Sorry to hear about what is happening. Sounds so hard and stressful!
I don’t know the ins and outs of an intervention order. Would you consider contacting https://whiteribbon.org.au/helplines/ ?
Ive only known of cases where there is risky behaviour and this involves going to court. So im not sure in your case.
Sorry!
I’ll wait to hear if you get more info.
21-12-2024 02:38 PM
21-12-2024 02:38 PM
TW: assault
There was a time that I had one against a mum especially when she came to my house and demanded money from me that I never owed her
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