Hi
Welcome
This whole saga sounds absolutely horrific.
Have you gone to the police to get a restraining order? If you have all of this information and have been to a therapist for bullying and fear for your life despite what you did you are entitled to put a restraining order against this person.
You should never not feel unsafe in your own home.
I don’t know the history of what happened but I will assume you have pictures of what he didn’t do for you? You have your contract of what work was supposed to be done?
I’ve just had a friend of mine who took her builder in because he did dodgy work. We got the money back for her.
But back to your safety. I suggest you go to the police station today and get a restraining order. At least you can sleep peacefully knowing if he tries anything he will go to jail.
Doesn’t matter what you did. A threat on your life is serious.
Also we have all done things in life we are not proud of, there are always times in the heat of the moment when we do things that we shouldn’t. You can learn from them or you can continue to beat yourself up for them and sink into a terrible place. Don’t do the latter. Learn from it and move forward. You are only human. We all have faults. Stop beating yourself up. It’s stopping you from thinking clearly. You are a good person who just got caught in a bad situation . Anyone of us could have.
Please protect yourself and get the restraining order then think how you are going to get this person.
Do not let this bully win, there is a way. Stay strong Chronic Depression
