@tyme same - I paid for the kids to go to a small private school, spent $15 000 in furniture, electrical goods, car rego etc etc.
The irony of you saying vengeance is mine is that is exactly what she said to me.
"I don't have to do anything because God will judge her - Romans 12:19." This is a message I received on her behalf.
It's taken nearly 2 years for me to be able to listen to my favourite band because it was "our" favourite band. She still has my CDs of said band. I think the worst thing she did was sick her ex husbands' girlfriend (who she dislikes) onto me with emails signing me up to p*rn sites, adult match making sites and all manner of spam emails that I am still deleting. I lost all my church friends - I was the independent one who could deal with it, she acted the victim successfully - I lost my friends at the school the kids went to and she walks away scott free.
The heck of it is that I will be fine for weeks and then I hear a song or a mutual acquaintance will talk about her and it triggers me all over again.
Will the kids forget me? Yes, they will. That's the type of person their mother is. She has already turned my Goddaughter against me, she'll do the same with my Godson.
I want to tear out my heart and live like I never met them.
