โ10-11-2024 03:43 AM - edited โ10-11-2024 03:44 AM
โ10-11-2024 03:43 AM - edited โ10-11-2024 03:44 AM
Dear @MJG017
Thanks for your response. I understand what you're saying about not choosing our emotions. We often feel things deeply, and it can be challenging to manage those feelings.
However, I believe that while we can't control how we feel, we can control how we react to those feelings. It's about taking a moment, recognizing the emotion, and then choosing a response that aligns with our values and goals.
It's a skill that takes practice, but it can lead to healthier and more fulfilling relationships. .....
This is something I'm working on.
โ10-11-2024 04:25 AM
โ10-11-2024 04:25 AM
Thanks for the squeezy hug ๐ค
I'v been snoozing listening to Dr James Doty's audible ' Mind Magic'
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โ10-11-2024 07:33 AM
โ10-11-2024 07:33 AM
Thank you, @Oaktree @MJG017 @PeppyPatti for your messages and support!
@MJG017 Yes, now that I think about it, it would have taken trust for him to tell me that he was feeling anxious. I hadn't thought of that until you pointed it out. Thank you.
By the way, the 92-year-old matriarch of my extended family saw my photo on social media with my partner, parents and brother and immediately messaged me to ask whether he was my boyfriend. She approves! I just got off a video-call to her. ๐
โ10-11-2024 09:21 AM
โ10-11-2024 11:03 AM
โ10-11-2024 11:03 AM
@MJG017 you explain things really nicely and clearly ๐ฅฐ
Wish I had your abilities.
โ10-11-2024 11:10 AM
โ10-11-2024 11:10 AM
@ArraDreaming Iโm proud of you too ๐ฆ
โ10-11-2024 11:13 AM
โ10-11-2024 11:13 AM
@Glisten no need to be proud of me mate, my mrs just did her first triathlon and finished with the time she was hoping
very proud here
Although littlest kid was not happy to see mum, then not see mum, then see mum again I think she was confused why she kept running away from me ๐คฃ๐คฃ
โ10-11-2024 11:15 AM
โ10-11-2024 11:15 AM
@ArraDreaming i'm a little out of the loops - what's this thing you've completed?
@Spirit_Healer so glad to hear the meeting between your partner and parents went well, such an exciting step!!!
also morning everyone ๐
โ10-11-2024 11:16 AM
โ10-11-2024 11:16 AM
โ10-11-2024 11:22 AM
โ10-11-2024 11:22 AM
juggling 3 kiddos is like a lil triathlon on its own i guess ๐
big congrats to Mrs AD !!! such an amazing achievement ๐ @ArraDreaming
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