Destiny

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme, 

I 100% agree with you. If someone is trashing a room there is something wrong. No one can observe the feelings and emotions of another individual.

This was to do with mindfulness. Describing is putting words on observations  No one can observe the intentions of others. Often attention is given to the effects of what other people do and then it is assumed that these effects were intentional. Expressive behaviour can be misleading. You just get a feeling sometimes and can’t describe it. So I don’t agree with that because like you said, if someone sees you all the time they most probably like you. 

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme,

i was just wondering if you are free tonight ?

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme,

it is strange but she used to say to me that the only thing you get from looking back is a sore neck. It was her thing, she used to tell me all the time. I believed her but now all I can do is look back at our time together 🥲

[tyme]

Ooooo @Rockdog  I like that one "The only thing you'll get from looking back is a sore neck!" True true. 

I wonder if it's not just about looking back but dwelling on the past and getting stuck there. 

We use our past to inform our future. But it doesn't mean you have to stay in the past.

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme ,

that is the thing that freaks me out. At the time it was the present. Now it is the past and I just look back missing her. She isn’t looking back and probably doesn’t care about me at all. Now I am looking back at the past that was the present at the time and now is gone. 

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme ,

I really am sad though because I just miss her so much. 

[tyme]

I'm hearing you. It sounds so painful @Rockdog . Yet, as you've mentioned, we all know that you have things to work on. 

Hope is what keeps us going. It keeps us fighting for what we want and believe in.

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme,

yeah I do have a lot to work on. With the help of the Sane family I think I can do it.

There are a lot of positive things happening. I am having a bit of a sad night though because I am just missing her 🥲

[Rockdog]

Hey @tyme ,

hope your weekend is going well.

Things are really going to happen aren’t they? 

[Rockdog]

Hi @tyme,

How are you going? Are you free to talk?