28-11-2022 02:48 PM
28-11-2022 02:48 PM
Sending lots of love to you @NatureLover and hoping you feel a whole lot better very soon.
💜💚🤗💛🤗💚💜
29-11-2022 01:02 PM
29-11-2022 01:02 PM
Best wishes @NatureLover I know it can be a battle sometimes
03-12-2022 06:10 PM
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09-12-2022 12:12 AM
09-12-2022 12:12 AM
My short run of weekly help came to an end today. All up I've made progress, I've dealt with quite a bit of stuff but realise there's a lot more to do. My aim was to see what I could achieve by Xmas and that still holds.
Unfortunately I have a family member in a much worse situation. I've offered help and suggestions which they refuse and see as not respecting boundaries. I fear they have no insight into their dire conditions. They don't seem to realise the inevitability of (traumatic and unwelcome) outside intervention if things don't improve. I don't know what to do.
09-12-2022 07:45 AM
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13-12-2022 12:24 AM
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13-12-2022 06:29 AM - edited 13-12-2022 06:30 AM
13-12-2022 06:29 AM - edited 13-12-2022 06:30 AM
Thank you my dear friends for your caring messages and care ❤️ xxx
I am doing OK except the hoarding has now become dangerous as I have to climb over the stuff at two points and it's a trip hazard in the rest of the narrow pathways too. I'm just not coping with it, it's all become too huge to deal with. I spoke to my psychologist about it and also about taking a break from the forums as I have nothing to give at the moment. She said it was OK to take a break as I haven't really had once since starting in April 2020. So I might take off till Christmas...I will be around on Christmas Day for anyone who needs it.
I hope you are OK, dear friends...sending you much 💛 💜 @Eve7 @Bow
13-12-2022 07:17 AM
13-12-2022 07:17 AM
Please take extra special care of yourself @NatureLover ♥
20-12-2022 08:27 PM
20-12-2022 08:27 PM
25-12-2022 07:27 AM - edited 25-12-2022 08:57 AM
25-12-2022 07:27 AM - edited 25-12-2022 08:57 AM
Hello dear friends, I'm back...happy Christmas / holidays to you!
The break has done me good, I have something to give again now - alhough it hasn't done my house any good - it's even more out of control, almost unfunctional. I'm stopping the ordering things online now, and a friend is coming to help me in January. She's helped me before, years ago, and is non-judgemental. It's going to be really tough work.
I will be around today for anyone who needs it - I don't celebrate Christmas as there were too many abusive Christmases all my life.
I will gradually catch up on all your news...hoping you are all OK...
@Eve7 @Bow @Emelia8 @Snowie @Shaz51 @creative_writer @Dimity @outlander
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